Are you open to the possibility that you can be so effective at your work or business that you have the freedom to enjoy your family without interruption? Could you travel to various locations around the world on extended vacations, and have the time to experience canal that life has to offer? Can you imagine doing all of that while getting more done in your work or business than ever before? Possible? If you don’t think so, you should stop reading right now.
If you are like us, your business is a passion for you, but there is so much more than business and work. Love, connection with the people in your life, being outward focused and being your contribution to the world are just a few of the ways to “be” outside of your business life. The trick is to strike a balance between work and play.
You might be thinking, “Yeah right, it’s easy to write about that but it’s quite another thing to actually accomplish living that balance.” That’s true; it’s easier to say than to do. We have good news and bad news. Let’s get right to the bad news first. Realistically, ambition makes having this lifestyle challenging, and it requires constant work. It’s an ongoing process. The good news is that we’d like to share some great tips that have worked for us.
Tip # 1: What to avoid!
Total balance can’t be achieved overnight. You want to set up the appropriate systems that allow for balance. It’s about brining everything to a higher level of effectiveness. Introduce some strategies at work that will allow you to shift some of your time elsewhere. Don’t worry; we’ve got tips for that too!
Tip # 2: Get rid of the distractions and “time-sucks!”
If you want to lose weight, eat less (and higher quality foods) and move more. The same holds true in this instance. Think of the calories as tasks, the list of things you do in your day. Decrease the number of things you do in a day by choosing the “high quality” tasks and getting to them right away. In this way, you’re burning through the most productive activities first
Let’s define your time sucks. You know what your time wasters are… the 70 emails every morning, Social Media, phone calls from co-workers, employees and others wanting to discuss some issue or another. Every time you get started on meaningful work, does something “come up” that lures you away from your focus? Have you ever started your day, and then 15 minutes later looked at the clock only to realize 3 hours have passed? Where did your day go? That’s why we use the term “time suck.”
Social media can be worse than email. If it’s important to you to stay in touch with this medium, then limit the amount of time you spend in you social media programs to 30 minutes/day. Moreover, there are wonderful programs that allow you to schedule updates and uploaded content, so you can spend some time at the beginning of the week getting your content organized and scheduled, and minimize your daily activity without compromising “presence.” One of the programs we like most which gives us this capability is TweetDeck, but there are others as well.
Tip # 3: Schedule your interruptions!
A strategy that has had immense impact on our lives is to schedule set times to deal with communications each day. Let the people you communicate with know ahead of time that you are limiting when it is that you are responding to them. Send an email to all of your contacts stating that in order for you to be more effective at handling all of their needs, you will only be responding between 12-1 PM and then again between 4-5 PM each day. This lets them know not to expect responses from you except between those times. If you have a few people who constantly email you with issues, you may want to talk with them to arrange steps for them to handle these issues on their own or plan to not have them resolved until you check your email. Empower them to do more!
NOTE - You can choose any time to check your emails. However, we do NOT recommend starting your day with that task. It opens the gateway for distractions. Give yourself a few hours in the morning when you’re fresh to get started on your important tasks. You’ll be surprised how much you’ll accomplish.
Tip # 4: How to handle calls!
It’s best, while being productive, that you turn your phones off. If for some reason your work doesn’t allow you to, we’d like to introduce you to a new way of handling those conversations. Instead of chit-chatting when you answer your phone, start off with “I don’t have a lot of time right now, but how can I help?” The caller knows immediately that you’re busy, taking time off of other important work, and that they should get to the point of their call quickly.
If your caller has an issue that does require your attention, your first question to yourself should be, “How can I arrange it so this person never has to call me again for this issue?” Then, begin at once to implement your strategy. The goal is to insure autonomy for yourself and the person calling.
Tip # 5: Go on a no-meeting-diet!
Unless your boss mandates that you attend, there is little reason to be at meetings. We generally never have meetings because in most cases, they are a waste of time. In cases where you can’t get away from a meeting but do have authority over the meeting, prepare a detailed outline of what will be discussed, how long each item will take, and when the meeting is scheduled to end, regardless of progress. If you have a boss, you might suggest that in an effort to be more effective, your company could have someone prepare that document for your whole team.
When your team needs to have a meeting to plan or brainstorm, have them meet on their own and come up with their best ideas and then send you a detailed document for you to review at the end of the meeting. In general, a 2 hour meeting can be summarized in 2 pages or less. You’ve saved a lot of time!
Tip # 5: Get Gatekeepers!
The key to your success is to insure that any situation you’re involved with requires your presence without question. If there is anyone you can delegate to, DO SO! We like the idea of having an information chain. This requires that you make sure that information only reaches you when it has no place left to go. We’ve already discussed the concept of empowering the people around you to make decisions on their own, and this is one of those instances where if you’ve done this, it’s an opportunity for them to really run with it. This process involves asking them to send you their ideas for response before sending them to clients. Review them and offer suggestions. Once you know that they can handle the follow up, ask them to “cc:” you on every correspondence. Soon, you’ll find that the “cc:” won’t even be necessary.
A plane uses almost 50% of its fuel on takeoff. There is more energy required to create the initial motion than there is to maintain motion. Next week, we will discuss what to do when you’re done this process to begin living in the balance of work and play!
Time management is a skill that optimizes the most valuable resource we have. Learn more time management strategies and other personal development skills by visiting our website, oneMYnd.com!